Stepmom holiday needs
Posted in Holidays on Dec 26th, 2007
I keep this list of human needs posted on the refrigerator to help myself articulate what’s going on with me. Here are the things I find myself wanting deeply around holiday times:
acceptance
affection
appreciation
belonging
inclusion
to be seen
to be known
to be understood
presence
safety
choice
freedom
space
It’s not that it’s anyone’s (or any group of people’s) job to intuit what I want or to [...]
