Jennifer Newcomb Marine: “…may happy extended families one day be the norm!”
Posted in Quotes on Apr 9th, 2008
“When it comes to divorce, may happy extended families one day be the norm!” –Jennifer Newcomb Marine, No One’s the Bitch
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Margaret Mead: “It’s idiotic to assume that because a marriage ends, it’s failed.”
Posted in Quotes on Jan 9th, 2008
“I don’t consider my marriages as failures. It’s idiotic to assume that because a marriage ends, it’s failed.” — Margaret Mead, who was married and divorced three times
Zsa Zsa Gabor: “Divorce can be beautiful”
Posted in Quotes on Dec 14th, 2007
“Hardly ever do you hear about or see a beautiful divorce where the ex-husband and ex-wife and all the husbands-in-law and wifes-in-law get along nicely and live happily ever after. . . .
“Look in any bookstore or library. There you will find hundreds of books telling you how to be happily married, but not one [...]
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If Jill could recommend only one book on building a better mom-stepmom relationship, it would be The Anatomy of Peace, and it's not even about stepfamilies. It's about helping things go right in all kinds of relationships. Related posts
People with drastically different communication styles can appear hostile to each other when they think they are signaling friendliness and consideration. That's Not What I Meant! is like the Rosetta stone. Related posts
One of the key ideas in this book is no one's needs in a relationship can be sacrificed. Not our own, and not anyone else’s. This book is about identifying and communicating feelings and needs in ways that are easier to hear, and it's about listening through difficult conversations for the feelings and needs others are trying to communicate. Related posts -
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The Parent Effectiveness Training book is our parenting bible. It's a guide to parenting with respect, consideration for everyone's needs, and without manipulation. It has probably also informed our relationship with each other. Do we always follow it perfectly? No, but we try. Related posts
How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk is a great to read alongside the P.E.T. book above. The conversational techniques it teaches dovetail with the P.E.T. approach.
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My Father Married Your Mother is collection of essays about real life stepfamily experiences by authors including Barbara Kingsolver, Sandra Tsing Loh, Jacquelyn Mitchard, Susan Cheever, and more. Related posts
Elizabeth Gilbert was recently divorced and miserable when she decided she wanted to travel around the world for a year, focusing on pleasure in Italy, devotion in India, and balance in Bali, and then write a book about it. She’s believable, she’s loveable, and she’s larger than life but not intimidating. She’s like a best friend or a sister calling that the water’s warm, the world is wild, and happiness after heartbreak is possible — even better than before. Related posts -
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If you're looking for a lighter treatment of divorce and remarriage, look no further. Zsa Zsa Gabor is your woman. Even though it's mostly funny and over the top, there are some nuggets of wisdom in this book. And some joy and love and affection. Related posts -
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