Links for Friday, February 8
Feb 8th, 2008 by Jill
- Debbie Ford on firstwivesworld: Finding Forgiveness - “The pain of separation or divorce is often so intense that it radically alters our ability to see the whole picture. So much good gets lost. So many blessings disappear. So much wisdom goes to waste. Even when we think we are the one who can see clearly, we are often blinded by the righteous positions and resentments that were birthed out of hurt and betrayal. To heal the deep ache in our hearts, we must learn how to forgive ourselves for our imperfections; for certain choices we’ve made, and we also must find the willingness to forgive our exes for having hurt and disappointed us. In this webisode we do just that by guiding you through an exercise to find the blessings in your marriage, no matter how bitter the divorce, and to find forgiveness for yourself and for your ex…” (watch video)
- Single Parents Blog: The Way You Tell Your Family Stories May Change - “When we are in the midst of a difficult separation or divorce, or have just been through a traumatic loss–we may tell our family story one way, while years later, the story takes on a bit of a different patina. This is healthy and typical and can be a sign that you are moving through stages and growing.” (more)
- The Mommy Blog: Co-parenting at its best - “Me: …I said, ‘Look, I never get so mad that anybody dies.’ Yet. Him: Go ahead, kill em. we’ve got nieces and nephews.” (more)
